“Can I even flirt anymore?”
“If I hit on someone are they going to think it’s sexual assault?”
“How do I even begin to navigate a workplace romantic interest without fear of losing my job?”
“Do I really have to ask for consent every time I want to kiss or touch someone? That seems like overkill.”
"I want to have casual sex. A lot of it. How do I get what I want and assure it's wanted on their part?"
"What do I do if someone regrets a sexual experience with me? How am I supposed to know that if they don't say anything in the act?"
THE GREY AREA. This discussion group tackles just that. Many people saw themselves in the Aziz Ansari narrative. He's not a bad guy. You may not be a bad guy as well, but how do we improve? How do we make a safer environment for women without compromising our own needs and desires? How do we navigate achieving those needs and desires? What do we need from women in order to make this new environment possible?
As featured in the New York Times
An all-male group led by LMSW Colin Lentz and assisted by several thought leaders.
 Bryan Stacy Sexual health advocate
 John Rominellio New York Times bestselling author and men's coach
 Lola Jean Sex Educator, Instructor and Coach
The though leaders will share personal stories and learnings as conversation points. They are there to question and offer perspective, not opinions. This is not a space to attack and correct behavior, but more a mancave to unpack aggression and sharing not-so-politically correct thoughts.

What this is a space for:
If you find yourself asking...
“I feel like I’m being associated with male aggressors just because I have a penis”“I’m confused as to what actually is a violation of consent”“I’m worried women are going to accuse me of assault if I say the wrong thing or touch them the wrong way”“I feel regretful of scenarios which I took advantage of females in the past”“I don’t know how to be an ally and advocate.”“Is what I’m currently doing, enough?”“I’m angry at the sheer amount of focus being placed on males responsibility”
What this is not a space for:
Specific individual blamingJudgement within the groupDiscussion specific to sexual assault, rape, crimes, or major news stories

About Bryan Stacy
Bryan Stacy founded Biem App after fear prevented him from dealing with a sexual health situation that left his testicular cancer and chlamydia undiagnosed and untreated for months. After writing and speaking to thousands about his sexual health journey, he co-founded Biem Health, an app that gives people access to sexual health doctors, the ability to get tested for STDs, and share verified test results with sexual partners. He can be found on Instagram @talkingnut and @biemteam.
About John Romaniello
John Romaniello is an entrepreneur, New York Times bestselling author, an expert on butt stuff and threesome ettiquette. An advisor to nearly a dozen fitness and tech companies, Romaniello has written for a myriad of publications covering topics ranging from insulin sensitivity to increasing sex drive and performance. He has been featured in dozens of publications and on a number of TV shows. 
About Lola Jean
Lola Jean is Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Fetish Wrestler, Pro Domme, Writer and self proclaimed Olympian Squirter. Lola's background in the mental health field gives her a deep understanding to the mental blocks many individuals may face sexually. Through both personal and professional experience, Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. 
About Colin Lentz
Colin Lentz is a licensed social worker in New York working as a psychotherapist and career counselor for individuals and couples. He has specialized training and expertise with: sexual functioning and sexual anxiety; fetishes, kink, and BDSM; compulsive sexual behavior; non-monogamy and polyamory; gender (including transgender and gender diverse people); and sexuality. He combines psychodynamic and solutions-focused clinical techniques to support clients in fostering deeper self-compassion.